Saturday, June 25, 2011

Love Letter To a Gremlin

Dear Gizmo,
                  I can truly say you had me fooled, at first you were cute and cuddly and easy to love,then something as simple as getting wet changed you into a horrible little monster!!!!!!!! Why is it that everybody sends a representative at the beginning of a relationship,Then 3-6 months in they evolve into another creature all together,,I started thinking I was in the twilight zone,, and the reason I stayed is because I'm still chasing that first high, my belief in you, my hope that you were gonna be all that was advertised and promised to me, unfortunately you can never catch your first high, its a mirage it never existed to begin with,You use to be so romantic and loving ,you did everything right, then one night it happen I dropped my venom on top and you turned into a gremlin,,,, ranting and raving and nippling at every little thing you can get your hands on.,,but once I hold you and pat you dry ,and assure you everything is all right, you turn right back into my little Gizmo,,,this is starting to become a job that I didn't sign up for,,the instructions on your name tag said all I have to do is love you, feed you , and play with you,,it didn't say anything about you being temper mental and rude, it didn't tell me what to do when you throw a tantrum , and I definitely wasn't aware that you didn't know how to act in public,,,boy my hands are full,, I got you because I thought you were gonna add happiness, security and love into my life not subtract all those thing, who am I suppose to talk to concerning the false advertisement.....
     Food for thought,,make better decisions, sit back and take your time, be sure of what you want and what your getting yourself into.

P.S  I hope you don't suffocate in the box I shipped you back in.
                                                                                                                               Sincerely Fooled Again

Saturday, June 18, 2011

Mother Of Pearls

This morning my big sister Tia  text me and asked me Do I own a pair of pearls??? Of course I do, That's like asking me if I have any  any Grey Poupon! lol, Doesn't every woman own a pair of real pearls? Owning a pair of pearls is a definite must have for your jewelry collection, its a sign of a mature, classy woman, that knows where she is going or knows where she's been in life, this fashion piece will last a lifetime, and will always hold the same value and meaning.Plus how are you ever suppose to experience a true dramatic moment without being able to clucth your pearls! ( Oh-NO mouth wide open as I clutch my pearls and fall to the floor).See the effect.
What are some other Fashion pieces every woman should have in her collection?
I would  definitely say every woman should own a beautiful watch, ( your cell phone is for making calls not checking the hour), every woman should own a pair of diamond studs( notice I said diamonds not cubic)and also a diamond ring whether engaged or night( we must all  love ourselves  first).
Now how about in our closets, ladies we have to remember shop Fashion not FAD ,( Fad is influenced by real fashion that has been repeated from past years and updated for the new generation). Ever woman should own a Classy black Blazer,a White collard button down shirt,a pair of Black Pumps(3inches or higher) and a pair of Neutral ones, a woman should be able to match her bra and panties if not everyday of the week at least 4 out of 7,for every shoe you have that stands out in a crowd your purse or clutch should match and stand out as well, every woman should own a dress for work, church, and to flirt!!and lets not forget about jeans every woman should own a pair of great fitting jeans , something that compliments your body type(,not hers but yours )and of course we all need to own a nice pair of comfy sweats to put on when we slip out of those tight fitting ( i mean great fitting ) jeans!lol.
Also a woman should make sure her hair and nails and make up are always on point when leaving the house , if its not in your budget to stop in to the salon then make sure you have nail polish remover and nail polish at home to take care of it in the meantime, and it doesnt take hours to put on a little lip goss and mascara, there is never an excuse to look unkempt  just sheer laziness,( I too have fallen victim) As woman we owe it to ourselves first, then society next to be what we where meant to be and that's nothing but a QUEEN! Know your worth, Appreciate your worth, and always Love your worth!

Wednesday, June 15, 2011

Take Me Away!

I'm gonna be in love with you until the day  I die.The things you do for my mental and physical, I just cant explain,It has me so SPACED out sometimes I feel insane, I avoided you for so many years saying your no good for me I know your type, now I long for your embrace to comfort me at night, I try to focus my attention on other things like kids, makeup ,and all types of flings, but you just keep calling me and stalking me and making me remember our long nights together, eff the weather, hell wetter is better, so let me moisten my throat b4 I take this long stroke of .........hmmmm.......,get your minds out the gutters!!!!! I was in a zone for a moment as I sit here getting an hour facial , that literally had me drifting off to another place , wow!!Those fingers were hypnotizing , I felt all the stress and pressure being lifted right out of my pores,,He came to me which was so convenient and comfortable, then he set up candles and put on a a soundtrack that relaxed me with the melodies of the ocean breeze,and then he went to work, I cant remember the last time my face felt so refreshed, and relaxed, I cant wait until my next session in 3 weeks, If anybody else is interested in this experience here's the info:
ISSAC DAVIS: 908-361-4705
follow him on tweeter @IDSKINCONCIERGE
book your appt today
Prices starting as low as $60 for an hour
call for details and tell him SOL BEAUTIFUL sent you!!!

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

Love Vs Money

I think we all can agree that having money is nice and being spoiled is even nicer.So why not want that in your life especially from your partner, you get to go out all the time , get nice gifts, power and options, but( there's always a butt), what about the price you have too pay.Mo Money Mo Problems is a true statement , money can cause alot of the problems in the  relationships  due to the stress and responsibilities that come along with it.What we all must remember is what goes up must come down and you better be prepared for when that happens . I think we all saw the effects the recession had on everyone especially those who were use to having money.One day you can wake up and it all be gone, and because your relationship was based on money and not love there's no way its gonna make it through the long haul, a true relationship can only survive when there's real love involved.Real love is going to give you the patience you need to rebuild together.Also be sure to bring something to the table yourself. Don't get me wrong I do believe the Man,The King, The Head, should definitely support more financially, but you should be able to give back and show appreciation and make your partner feel good for all that there doing,,but there's definitely nothing wrong with having standards., don't let anybody tell you differently especially if you have your own home,car,and income ,just like you should be an assets in someones life they need to have added to yours , because we all know you can do bad by yourself, remember we attract what we are so if your not about ish don't expect someone to give you ish.Only those who do should have the right to be spoiled.Know your worth,,, Now lets dish and discuss whats your thoughts

Friday, June 10, 2011

Space Saver

Why is space so important In any relationship that you have?I'm sure we can all agree that too much of anything is never a good thing, Especially when it comes to space,,The #1 leading cause for break ups in relationships is too much smothering, which in other words really means too much control.I feel when more people realize that a relationship is suppose to be based on alot of positive energy ,love, fun,, building and balance,, and not control, the longer the relationship will last, and the last I checked acting too needy is a turnoff.With any relationship there has to be compromise but just make sure its fair and not just one side,.I can go this way and you can go that way, as long as we come back in full circle and meet in the middle then its all good with me.
In my mothers womb I shared space with no one , I was born by myself and I shall die by myself ,so while I'm still here I have the final say so, and I will never entirely give up my space 100% . Now don't get me wrong my children can invade my space as much as needed, but other then that everyone else has boundaries, one thing I have learned from dealing with so many different types of relationships, whether dating , or with my family, friends are even associates,Nine out of ten times that other individual feels the same way too , they were just  to simple to break tradition, don't be afraid to be the one to show them how to break out of it , and even though these relationships we different , the majority of them never panned out to be what it was suppose to be, so I said to myself one day I said 'Self why are you giving up everything for something that's not even guaranteed",,lesson learned never completely let go of your space 100%, remember to make sure you keep some just for yourself,,trust me, you and the next individual will appreciate the relationship and what its truly suppose to be about ,, you wont have to worry about burn outs as often , or boredom , things will seem much fresher and alive.
Don't forget doing the same thing over and over in life and getting the same results is INSANITY!!!Only you and god are in control of your life and if you need a reminder just take a quick look at your birth certificate and check the names on it. The quicker you become comfortable with being by yourself and see how much fun it is to get some space for me time, the sooner you'll realize the importance of it , and  the less you'll put up with in relationships,and the happier you'll be.

Wednesday, June 8, 2011

Ghetto Fabulous

Every woman should know how to take keep herself up regardless of the budget, there is a growing trend going on that use to be looked down on,or was talked about as tacky,,what is this trend you may ask, I'll give you a hint,I'm sitting under a dryer, with a licensed professional beautician,, getting my$300 weave hooked up,The only thing is I'm sitting in a kitchen and not a salon. More and more professionals are conducting services outside of their home on their off days to generate more money,, seems like a win win situation to me, the beautician gets to keep the entire profit and I get to save at least $100 bucks while stepping out looking like I just left an upscale salon #winning,,:-)

Pros and Cons:
OK lets see , 1 Pro is you're the only one being serviced so the process is much quicker (ladies one thing I hate about salons is having to sit in one all day) another Pro is I don't have to worry about the products being used, If you use a licensed professional she can use the same products that are being used in the salon, and lets revisit the savings again,,hers;s a little breakdown for you

Salon Prices, Hair-$300, Full Sewn -In $200, which equals $500,,now
Kitchen Prices, Hair $300, Full Sewn -In $100, for a total of $400, I just saved $100,
This works for me ,I love to be fabulous but on a budget,,Its called survival of the fittest,

Cons: I think the only Con to this is that you have to deal with whatever they have going on in their house at that time, such as sitting there watching dinner being cooked, or kids running around hitting the top of the dryer while your sitting under it,,best bet is to just mingle right on in like your family, and lucky for me I'm already considered family in this house hold so it's all good.

Now lets Dish and Discuss, is this a do or don't and why,,

BTW: She is currently in the process of getting the doors opened at her own salon, In the meantime anybody else that doesn't mind being Ghetto Fabulous here's her info:
Latice Hollis 908-456-4726, ask her about the new Rusk Wand Curlers,let her know Sol Beautiful sent you1:-)

Tuesday, June 7, 2011

Morning Giggle !

Good morning Everyone , Today I decided to get every ones day started with a Lil Giggle, , This one is called Men In Heaven,,enjoy!

" When everyone on earth was dead and waiting to enter Paradise, God appeared and said, "I want the men to make two lines. One line is for the men who were true heads of their household, and the other line for the men who were dominated by their women.I want all women to report to St. Peter."
Soon , the women were gone, and there were two lines of men. The line of the men who were dominated by their wives was 100 miles long, and in the line of men who were truly heads of their household, there was only one man.
God said " You men should be ashamed of yourselves, I created you to be the head of your household! You have been disobedient and have not fulfilled your purpose! Of all of you, only one obeyed.Learn from him."

God turned to the one man,"How did you manage to be the only one in this line?"
The man replied, "My wife told me to stand here." (lmbo)

On that note everyone enjoy your day High 90 degrees low of 65,, keep your bodies replenish with lots of water,don't forget to take your Multivitamin, Bio 10, and also some Vitamin D,, , Cover your face with either a moisturizer with SPF Sunscreen , or a tinted Moisturizer with SPF Sunscreen  in it, (most sunscreens with an SPF of 15 or higher do an excellent job of protecting against UVB).

Stay tuned for more updates and tips  throughout the day !

Monday, June 6, 2011

Spicy Weiner

What If everyone who cheated had to go on the National News and admit to cheating, like Rep.Weiner, Is it just the people in the public eye whose expected to be perfect or Else!! I know with holding a certain title(whether in politics,sports,or entertainment) their are certain responsibilities that come along with it,maybe that's why the payoff is so big(hmm?) What I saw as I watched Rep.Weiner make a public apology was a regular man who made a stupid mistake and was more so humiliated and embarrassed then he is truly sorry, he's only sorry he got caught (sloppy) typical ,,people wake up!! Pay attention to what you are doing,its always one little stupid slip up( like sending a photo to tweeter instead of private text)that gets you caught now what! Everything comes crashing down  in whats now a  national scandal your whole life flipped upside down in a blink of an eye.Just last week they were calling him Feisty Weiner then the next thing you know your grown ass is on the News crying like a baby, snot dripping all choked up(hilarious) Is it worth it,because the risk you're taking may be the biggest mistake or greatest adventure in your life, too bad you cant preview and fast forward to see how it all pans out ,but unfortunately you cant,,some may say I only have one life to live and its mine to control and to  do whatever I choose to do with it (devilish grin), then others may say there's just too many things going around such as A.I.D.S(#1 leading death among African American women) hurting people  that love you, karma,and just sticking to morals taught to us from the bible,,It all boils down to making better decisions and respecting people enough to at least let them know the truth so that they can exercise their options,people may not like the truth and it may hurt but they have no choice but to respect the truth. Lets dish and discuss , what do you think?

First things first

Good morning to all , as my feet hit the floor  so do my knees, thanking god for another day to live,and continue on with this thing we like to call life,, It looks like its going to be a great day to get some things accomplish, today the temperature will go up to 81degrees,low of 67,,, weather like this is so motivating , there's no way you can just sit and let this day pass you by.... So after cleansing your mind and soul with a morning conversation with Jah, time to move onto the physical well being ,, I like to start off with 20 Min's of Yoga for a great stretch, then a 2 1/2 mile walk around the park with my my exercise buddies, one has two legs the other has four, then back inside for a good breakfast , whether its a bowl of Raisin Bran Crunch(one of my new favorites), or an  Egg Omelet with Mozzarella & Spinach and Mushrooms, which comes out better then any franchise restaurant thanks to the teachings of Rachel Ray, after breakfast time to take my Multivitamin , then Bio 10( this is a miracle in a pill for hair ,skin,and nails)and depending on my mood maybe even a Vitamin B, next is to cleanse the outside with a power shower as I use my new favorite Body Wash its from Soft Soap Wild Bamboo& Cherry Blossom (the smell is hypnotizing) then we move on to any lotion of choice preferably one with sunscreen( yes we all need to protect our skin from this damaging sun even when were not on the beach). Last thing I make sure of, is to make sure my bed is made , how awful is it to have such a inspiring day then you end it with a messed up bed(not good).Lets all remember the morning sets the tone for the rest of the day, if your morning is in order the rest of your day should just follow..,,Once again I say Goodmorning and have a Great Day!!

Sunday, June 5, 2011

Dose of Reality

So anyone with two eyes and two ears , has now realized that Reality Shows are the new T.V Addiction,, I have to admit it definitely has me scheduling my day around show times. There is a reality show for every walk of life, and since I have so many different personalities I'm always entertained ,I can go from watching The Atlanta Housewives for some southern comfort & drama , then click  over to Gatsby for my dose of what some people call Jersey,Then Mob Wives to see how they get down in Staten Island, and back to Miami for Basketball Wives, I mean the list can go on and on,, it gets so bad that I actually start checking dates on my calender to make sure my DVR is set accordingly, It seems like all the real good ones come on all the same night., not a problem for a Reality Junkie, I have mastered recording 6 shows in a three hour sequence,Every Reality Junkie has to have a DVR  so that of course u miss nothing , u can rewind, pause to check out makeup and fashion , I mean it just becomes a way of life.I truly believe that the only way this Reality Rage would end is when they start coming out with better sitcoms, even The Game this season was not as good as it use to be. One that looks a little promising  is Single Ladies, Featuring Lisa Ray McCoy & Stacey Dash with guest appearance's  by Eve, Lauren London,Kim Porter, and Queen Latifah to name just a few. Stay tuned and lets dish...I heard there was drama on the set already with Lisa & Stacey , word is Lisa threw Stacey around like a rag doll(oh-no!), but during an interview later that week on Wendy Williams, Lisa Ray denied it and cleaned it up by saying "when you work together every day for so any hours in a day theirs bound to be a little tension but nothing more,(um-hm)??I'm sure will all see what really happen behind the scenes when Lisa Ray's reality show comes back on.


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